The Easy Method to quit smoking


The object of this articale is to get you into the frame of mind in which, instead of the normal method of stopping whereby you start off with the  feeling that you are climbing Mount Everest and spend the next few  weeks craving a cigarette and envying other smokers, you start right  away with a feeling of elation, as if you had been cured of a terrible disease. From then on, the further you go through life the more you will  look at cigarettes and wonder how you ever smoked them in the first  place. You will look at smokers with pity as opposed to envy.
Provided that you are not a non - smoker or an ex - smoker, it is essential  to keep smoking until you have finished the book completely. This may  appear to be a contradiction. Later I shall be explaining that cigarettes do absolutely nothing for you at all. In fact, one of the many conundrums about smoking is that when we are actually smoking a cigarette, we look  at it an d wonder why we are doing it. It is only when we have been  deprived that the cigarette becomes precious. However, let us accept  that, whether you like it or not, you believe you are hooked. When  you believe you are hooked, you can never be completely relax ed or concentrate properly unless you are smoking. So do not attempt to stop smoking before you have finished the whole book. As you read further  your desire to smoke will gradually be reduced. Do not go off half - cocked; this could be fatal. Remember, all  you have to do is to follow the  instructions.
With the benefit of twelve years' feedback since the book's original publication, 'Timing', this instruction to continue  to smoke until you have completed the book has caused me more frustration than any other. When I first stopped smoking, many of my relatives  and friends stopped, purely because I had done it. They thought, 'If he  can do it, anybody can.' Over the years, by dropping little hints I managed to persuade the ones that hadn't stopped to realize just how nice it is to be free! When the book was first printed I gave copies to the hard core  who were still puffing away. I worked on the basis that, even if it were the most boring book ever written, they would still read it, if only  because it had been written by a friend. I was surprised and hurt to  learn that, months later, they hadn't bothered to finish the book. I even  discovered that the original copy I had signed and given to someone who  was then my closest friend had not only  been ignored but actually given away. I was hurt at the time, but 1 had overlooked the dreadful fear that  slavery to the weed instills in the smoker.
It can transcend friendship. I nearly provoked a divorce because of it. My mother once said to my wife, 'Why don't you threaten to leave him if he doesn't stop smoking?' My  wife said, 'Because he'd leave me if I did.’ I’m ashamed to admit it, but I believe she was right, such is the fear that smoking creates. I now realize  that many smokers don't finish the book because they feel they have got  to stop smoking when they do. Some deliberately read only one line a day in order to postpone the evil day. Now I am fully aware that many readers are having their arms twisted, by people that love them, to read  the book.Look at it this way: what have you got to lose? If you don't stop at the end of the book, you are no worse off than you are now. YOU  HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE AND SO MUCH TO  GAIN! Incidentally, if you have not smoked for a few days or weeks but are  not sure whether you are a smoker, an ex - smoker or a non - smoker,  then don't smoke while you read. In fact, you are already a non - smoker. All we've now got to do is to let your brain catch up with your  body. By the end of the book you'll be a happy non - smoker.
Basically my method is the complete opposite of the normal method  of trying to stop. The normal method is to list the considerable disadvantages of smoking and say, 'If only I can go long enough without, a cigarette, eventually the desire to smoke will go. I can then enjoy life again, free  of slavery to the weed.' This is the logical way to go about it, and thousands of smokers are  stopping every day using variations of this method. However, it is very  difficult to succeed using this method for the fol lowing reasons:

1  Stopping smoking is not the real problem. Every time you put a cigarette out you stop smoking. You may have powerful reasons on day one to say, 'I do not want to smoke any more' - all smokers have, every day of their lives, and the reasons are more powerful than you  can possibly imagine. The real problem is day two, day ten or day  ten thousand, when in a weak moment, an inebriated moment or even a strong moment you have one cigarette, and because it is partly drug addiction you then want another, and suddenly you are a smoker again.
2  The health scares should stop us. Our rational minds say, 'Stop doing it. You are a fool,' but in fact they make it harder. We smoke, for example, when we are nervous. Tell smokers that it is killing them, and the first thing they will do is to light a cigarette. There  are more dog ends outside the Royal Mars den Hospital, the country's  foremost cancer treatment establishment, than any other hospital  in the country.
3 All reasons for stopping actually make it harder  for two other  reasons. First, they create a sense of sacrifice. We are always being  forced to give up our little friend or prop or vice or pleasure, whichever way the smoker sees it.  Secondly,  they create a 'blind'.  We do not smoke for the reasons we should stop. The real question is 'Why do we want or need to do it?'
The Easy Method is basically this: initially to forget the reasons we'd  like to stop, to face the cigarette problem and to ask ourselves the  following questions:
1 What is it doing for me?
2  Do I actually enjoy it?
3 Do I really need to go through life paying through the nose just to
stick these things in my mouth and suffocate myself?
The beautiful truth is that it does absolutely nothing for you at all.  Let me make it quite clear, I do not mean that the disadvantages of being  a smoker outweigh the advantages; all smokers know that all their lives.  1 mean there are not any advantages from smoking. The only advantage  it ever had was the social 'plus'; nowadays even smokers themselves regard it as an  antisocial habit.
Most smokers find it necessary to rationalize why they smoke, hut the  reasons are all fallacies and illusions.
The first thing we are going to do is to remove these fallacies and illusions. In fact, you will realize that there is nothing t o give up. Not  only is there nothing to give up but there are marvelous, positive gains  from being a non - smoker, and health and money are only two of these  gains. Once the illusion that life will never be quite as enjoyable without  the cigarette is removed, once you realize that not only is life just as  enjoyable without it but infinitely more so, once the feeling of being deprived or of missing out are eradicated, then we can go back to reconsider the health and money  -and the dozens of other reasons for  stopping smoking. These realizations will become positive additional aids to help you achieve what you really desire to enjoy the whole of  your life free from the slavery of the weed.

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